WomensGolf.com — Discovery Slider v3.3
How do I get more distance off the tee? Need driver distance? Try Lesson Discovery →
Why am I hitting my irons fat? Iron contact issues? Identify Your Focus Here →
How do I get out of bunkers more easily? Stuck in bunkers? Find Your Starting Point →
Help me stop missing short putts? Putting problems? Get Jane's First Check →
I need more confidence on the course Lacking confidence? Take the 30-Second Quiz →
Alison Curdt - Myths of Consistency
Never lose a lesson again. Save videos to your own library.

Changing Your Expectations on the Course

Our Golf Psychology section leader, Dr. Alison Curdt advises her student to see the inevitable variables of golf as exciting opportunities to excel.

All golfers would love to hit the same good shots over and over, with practice, without practice, any type of condition, any golf course.  To show up at the course and expect the 7 iron to travel its intended distance every time you play would be a dream! So many golfers arrive at my lesson tee, or therapy couch, desiring consistency. They want to make the same swing over and over, without any deviations, so they can predict where the ball will go. Sounds awesome, but I’m here to tell you it is just not possible.

Do you wake up every day with the same mood? The same level of energy? Same motivation? Same physicality? If you’re human, the answer is “No.” We are different day to day, therefore our golf swings will be different day today, and that is ok!

If any athlete could be consistent, they would never make a mistake. Baseball pitchers would be able to throw every pitch desired on command. Quarterbacks would never miss a throw to their receivers. Touring professionals would never hit an errant shot. We have all been a witness to exhilarating Sunday afternoon tour golf, just to see a leader miss a short putt, hit a ball in the water, or bogey the last hole to lose a championship. Let me pose this question to you-if the best athletes in the world are not consistent, how can the rest of us golfers expect to be consistent when we head to the golf course?

From a psychological perspective, a great strategy is to directly align your skill set with your expectations. If you normally shoot in the ’90s, your skill set will be filled with great shots, mediocre shots, and a few horrible shots any given round. As a great player once said, he expected to only hit 7 to 8 quality shots a round, and he hoped the rest of them were good enough to score well. If your skill set, meaning your ability at golf, is directly in line with your expectations you will experience less disappointment and frustration round to round.

Alison Curdt - Bunker Shot

So if we know we cannot be consistent because it’s not humanly possible, what can we do to attain the “repeatability” of a satisfying golf score or shot? Fellow colleagues and top instructors Pia Nilsson and Lynn Marriot suggest “being a master of variability.”

Let’s start by changing our language. Instead of trying to be consistent, could you perhaps try to be repeatable in your steps to approach the game? For example, if you take 2 practice putting strokes before hitting a putt, could you do that every time you approach a putt to build a repeatable process? If you stretch out and do a warm-up session before an important tournament, could you strive to repeat that process before every round? Lastly, if taking a deep breath helps you relax and focus, could you take a deep breath before executing every golf shot? This is by no means a guarantee for perfect shots all the time because that just isn’t possible, however following your routine and repeating positive processes helps you get into a good mental state to perform your best.

As situations occur on the golf course (i.e. rough shots, sidehill lies, different grass types, varying speeds of greens, and changing weather conditions) look to embrace the variances. Golf is not played on a perfectly flat surface 100% of the time with consistent weather, therefore it is helpful to embrace the conditions as they change, and the variables as they come your way.

Look at the changes as exciting opportunities to excel. Reword your self-statements from “Oh no. My ball is in a divot. How unfair!” to “Ok, this will be a challenge, but I know how to hit out of a divot, and this will be a fun opportunity to see how I do!”  If we change our perception of adversity, it will be a lot more tolerable.

The moment you give up trying to be consistent and start accepting all the variables golf brings, you can utilize your repeatable processes to succeed.

Alison

Find Your Next Lesson

The Real Reason You Top the Golf Ball and How to Fix It - Nathalie Sheehan - Womens Golf
The Real Reason You Top the Golf Ball (and How to Fix It)
Are you topping the golf ball and constantly told to "hit down more"? Nathalie Sheehan reveals why that common advice might be making your problem worse! Nathalie shows why your swing's low point often gets too far forward, causing those frustrating thin...
Escape Fairway Bunkers with Your Favorite Lofted Hybrid - Kellie Stenzel - Womens Golf
Escape Fairway Bunkers with Your Favorite Lofted Hybrid
Learn how to use your 5 or 6-hybrid to escape fairway bunkers with ease. Kellie Stenzel shares the simple setup and swing adjustments needed to take sand and get the ball back in play.
How to Fix Your Fat Shots Course
How to Fix Your Fat Iron Shots - Learning Plan
Struggling with chunky iron shots that go nowhere? Here's the lesson plan with great tips and drills that I trust to fix fat shots.
" "

Women's Golf Membership

  • Personalized Recommendations from Jane tailored directly to your profile.
  • Expert Teachers: 1,300+ lessons from 28 top female instructors.
  • The Weekend Game Plan: Jane's weekly newsletter with all the new lessons.
  • 25 guided improvement pathways: Step-by-step roadmaps.
  • Never Lose a Lesson Again. Save your favorite videos to your personal library.
  • Private Community: Our friendly moderated worldwide members' group.
$75 / year

Your rate is guaranteed and will never increase.

🔒 30-Day Money-Back Guarantee

How Women's Golf Works

  1. 1 Complete your member profile by describing your game and game improvement priorities.
  2. 2 Explore the platform by browsing lessons, following guided courses, and saving videos to your personal library.
  3. 3 Connect with others by joining our private worldwide members' community whenever you are ready.
  4. 4 Check your inbox for your welcome email with everything you need to make the most of your membership.
  5. 5 Receive your personalized recommendations from Jane within 24 hours, tailored directly to your profile.
Join Women's Golf for $75/year

Live Lesson Favorites

Videos currently being watched by Women’s Golf members

Playing Fairway Bunker Shots
The Secret to Fairway Bunker Shots: Ball First Contact
Don't let a fairway bunker ruin your score. Erika Larkin shows how ball position and a quiet lower body can help you pick the ball clean and get it back in play toward the green.
Ball Well Below Feet Around the Green - Christina Ricci
The Smart Way to Play a Ball That's Below Your Feet
Facing a tough lie with the ball below your feet? Christina Ricci shares her strategy for this challenging shot. Learn how to aim for the slope, cut your swing tempo, and club up to get your shot safely on the green.
Number 1 Mistake Women Make on the Golf Course Apologizing - Nathalie Sheehan - Womens Golf
The #1 Mistake Women Make on the Golf Course ... Apologizing
Are you a golfer who find yourself saying sorry for every bad shot on the golf course? LPGA Instructor Nathalie Filler shares how to fix it. Learn to stop apologizing for your misses and focus on being a joy to play with.

Our personalised lesson recommendations and step‑by‑step improvement pathways are designed especially for women who are new to golf. They bring together the right lessons in the right order, helping you build confidence, develop solid fundamentals, and enjoy steady progress from your very first steps.

What Are You Working On?

Select your biggest challenge below to see how Jane will tailor your lessons for faster progress.

Step 1 of 2

Which of these best describes your golf right now?

Guest lessons are limited – Join for full benefits