The #1 Mistake Women Make on the Golf Course ... Apologizing

The #1 Mistake Women Make on the Golf Course … Apologizing

Are you a golfer who find yourself saying sorry for every bad shot on the golf course? LPGA Instructor Nathalie Filler shares how to fix it. Learn to stop apologizing for your misses and focus on being a joy to play with.

Your Action Plan

What: Your goal is to stop apologizing for your shots on the golf course and to keep the game moving.

Why: Apologizing for every shot you hit slows down the game and can make playing with you less enjoyable for your playing partners.

How:

Stop Apologizing: Understand that golf is hard, and even the pros miss. You do not need to say sorry for a bad shot.
Smile: Focus on keeping a positive attitude and enjoying the game.
Keep the Game Moving: Pick up your ball if you need to, and always focus on keeping the pace of play moving.

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Nathalie Filler

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