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How to Stop Topping Your 3-Wood

Stop "thinning" your fairway woods. If you've been taught to play the ball super far forward in your stance, you might be setting yourself up for a top. Learn Cathy Kim’s preferred ball position to ensure a clean, sweeping strike every time you're on the fairway.
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The Frustration of the Top: One of the most frustrating experiences for any golfer is topping a 3-wood while playing from the fairway. When this happens, the club strikes the top half of the ball, causing it to dribble along the ground rather than taking flight.

Check Your Ball Position: The first and simplest thing to check when you are struggling with contact is where the ball is positioned in your stance. Many golfers are taught to set the ball extremely far forward for woods, but this can actually be the primary reason for a topped shot.

The “One-Ball” Rule: To ensure a clean strike, you need to find the “sweet spot” in your setup that allows the club to sweep through the ball. A great rule of thumb is to position the ball exactly one ball-width behind where you would normally place it for a driver.

How to Stop Topping Your 3-Wood By moving the ball slightly back from the driver position, you change the point of impact. This adjustment ensures that the clubhead is at the bottom of its arc or beginning to move through the turf correctly, allowing you to sweep the ball off the ground cleanly for a high, long-drifting shot.

Questions and Answers

Q: Why does setting the ball too far forward cause a top?
A: When the ball is too far forward, the clubhead has already reached the bottom of its arc and is moving upward by the time it reaches the ball. This causes the leading edge of the club to catch the top of the ball instead of the face making solid contact.

Q: Should I try to “hit down” on my 3-wood like an iron?
A: No. Unlike an iron where you want a descending blow, a 3-wood requires a “sweep.” Adjusting your ball position allows you to maintain that sweeping motion while still making clean contact with the back of the ball.

Q: Is this ball position the same for a 5-wood or 7-wood?
A: As the clubs get shorter and have more loft, the ball generally moves slightly further back toward the center of your stance. However, using the “one ball behind driver” rule is an excellent starting point for your longest fairway wood.

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